How to Live Life on Your Own Terms as Your True Authentic Self
Our past is creating our present, and if we’re not careful, it will also create our future. But the exciting part about this is that we have an opportunity to change it – we can rewrite our stories.
You see, many of us don’t realize this, but we have unconscious stories and triggers that kick in to keep us safe.
Think about these scenarios and see if you can relate…
- You purchase a high-performance planner.
- You start waking up earlier and create an entirely new morning routine.
- You join Clubhouse and soak in all this information from experts.
- You’re watching the webinars and taking the courses.
Essentially, you feel like you’re doing everything right to create success in your life, but you’re not seeing results.
Can we let you in on a little secret? These are all distractions. You might be thinking… “Mmm I don’t understand? Distractions… how?”
Let us give you another scenario…
- You’re always on the go.
- You can’t disconnect from work.
- You end your night with a few drinks.
- You comfort yourself with food.
Now it’s pretty apparent that with this scenario these things are distracting you from an underlying issue, right? But with the first scenario, it’s not so obvious because these actions are positive. However, the two scenarios involve looking for solutions outside of ourselves. It’s very normal. We all do it. But you cannot find a solution for an internal issue from an external source.
THE SOLUTION
The real secret to living life on your terms as your authentic self is to rewrite the underlying beliefs and stories that stop you every time you try to change something about your life.
Whether it be losing weight, building a successful business, strengthening your relationship with your partner, making a financial decision – you name it – you won’t be able to accomplish any of these things unless you uncover what’s really keeping you stuck, and you’re the only person that can do this.
So, if the planner, morning routine, and other people’s advice aren’t working… maybe it’s time you address those underlying stories that keep sabotaging your efforts to change.
Maybe it’s time you stop saying, “Why can’t I just do the work? Someone is showing me how to do it… what is wrong with me?” Nothing is wrong with you; you’re just protecting yourself and you’ve done this for years.
HOW TO APPLY THE SOLUTION IN YOUR LIFE
If you’re willing and ready to live life as your true authentic self, ITN founder Cynthia Garcia is sharing on the Women of Impact podcast with Lisa Bilyeu how you can finally do this for yourself.
Because we believe you deserve to be an active participant in creating your life and your future, and we believe that if your mindset was as strong as your dreams, you’d be running the world.
So, if you’re curious as to how you can finally live life on your own terms, give this episode a listen!
You’ll discover…
- The power of reframing and controlling your perspective.
- Why getting uncomfortable is required for change.
- How to break negative patterns and get unstuck.
- How to truly change the course of your life.
- The power of understanding the stories you tell yourself.
- How to let go of what other people think of you.
- Why it’s okay to not always be happy.
- The power and beauty of pain in your life.
- And so much more!
